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龙应台，1952年生于台.湾，华人SJ率性犀利的一枝笔，33岁着手写《野火集》抨击时弊，21天内再版24次，对中国两岸发生深远的影响。34岁**次做母亲，自称从此开始上“人生课”，至今未毕业，且成绩不佳——“人生三书”《孩子你慢慢来》、《亲爱的安德烈》、《目送》，是这堂“人生课”中的三本“作业”。 内容提要 1、《孩子你慢慢来：龙应台“人生三书”之一》
《孩子你慢慢来：龙应台“人生三书”之一》—— 20周年经典新版“母子之书” 妈妈50后 孩子80后 “家有二胎”的成长镜头……
作为华人SJ率性犀利的一枝笔，龙应台的文章有万丈豪气，然而《孩子你慢慢来》却令人惊叹，她的文字也可以有万丈深情。
这本书里的龙应台是一个母亲，与生命的本质和起点素面相对，作Z深刻的思索，Z不思索的热爱。面对初生至童年、少年时期的两个孩子（华飞、华安），从出生，到开始说话、识字、逐渐认识这个SJ，书中有忍俊不禁的童真，有无法抑制的爱怜，也有母子的无奈和迷惑。它不是对传统母职的歌颂，它是对生命的实景写生，只有真正懂得爱的作家才写得出这样的生活散文。
后来，15岁的“底笛”（弟弟）说：“有时候，妈妈带我们在草原上放风筝。草原那么大，草绿得出水，我们躺下来，看风筝在天空里飞。我觉得我可以一辈子躺在那里。”
2、《孩子你慢慢来》目录
【妈妈的序言】蝴蝶结/龙应台
初识
龙
那是什么
终于嫁给了王子
野心
欧嬷
写给怀孕的女人
他的名字叫做“人”
啊！洋娃娃
寻找幼稚园
神话?迷信?信仰
男子汉大丈夫
渐行渐远
3、《Z好的方法给孩子》
《Z好的方法给孩子》是ZM主持人王芳在养育女儿、从事教育工作中D创的近百个实用方法，是她送给爸爸、妈妈不心急带出好孩子的锦囊妙计，是由凯叔、明星辣妈团诚挚推荐的亲子教育畅销力作。
王芳将自己的多重角色成功转化为亲子教育上的天然优势，将一名新时代YX妈妈具备的开阔眼界和全新思维融入8岁女儿的养育过程，她阅读了200多本GN外XJ的亲子教育书籍，却不拘泥于其中的一招一式，结合自己身为人母以及制作电视节目、从事教育培训中与孩子相处的经验和技巧，为有烦恼的爸爸妈妈们提供让孩子跑赢人生长跑的教育方法，比如“行走教育法”“神奇记忆法”“微笑成长法”“朗诵课”、“感恩课”、“马术课”……观点新颖，语言轻松，实用、有效，可以帮助每一个不敢放孩子去飞的家长享受父母真正成功的爱。
4、《Z好的方法给孩子》目录
推荐序
好方法带出好孩子 凯叔
教育孩子有一套 李菁菁
聪明妈妈不着急 何静
妈妈的时间是“零钱”
笑着长大
Z好的方法给孩子
学好英语的窍门
有一节课叫“道歉课”
过目不忘
家里那只小“白眼狼”
上课为啥不发言
Z重要的教育
暂时没有目录，请见谅！
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