'Hugely warm, wise, hopeful and encouraging' Alain de Botton
Every parent wants their child to be happy and every parent wants to avoid screwing them up. But how do you achieve that?
In this absorbing, clever and funny book, renowned psychotherapist Philippa Perry tells us what really matters and what behaviour it is important to avoid - the vital dos and don'ts of parenting.
Instead of mapping out the 'perfect' plan, Perry offers a big-picture look at the elements that lead to good parent-child relationships. This refreshing, judgement-free book will help you to:
· Understand how your own upbringing may affect your parenting
· Accept that you will make mistakes and learn what you can do about them
· Break negative cycles and patterns
· Handle your own and your child's feelings
· Understand what different behaviours communicate
Full of sage and sane advice, this is the book that every parent will want to read and every child will wish their parents had.
##真的希望我父母读过…babies and children are people,not objects or projects,虽然所有大人都曾经是孩子,可惜很少大人会记得
评分##I’m convinced, for the most part. Part three Feelings is the highlight.
评分##很好看!用词简单,容易读,有很多例子和简短的有意义的句子。很有启发性,例如关系是一切的基础。就是这本书怎么这么短呢?
评分##前几章写的心理很棒,后面就是育儿了,我对这个完全不感兴趣。
评分为什么我才读到这本书,这是我四年多家长生涯读到最好的一本育儿书。以后我会推荐给每个准备要小孩的人读。这本书值得我写一篇很长的体会和笔记,背下来自用。另外我发现自己现在对实用类书籍的兴趣超过了小说文艺类,自己太无知了,现在需要提高的两个领域是育儿和领导力。
评分##Baby is body and all feelings. Synchronize your breath with your baby. And, always be the container for their emotions.
评分##都legacy和environment这两章的时候,竟然泪目了…其实我也算拥有一个所谓“normal”的童年,但看着书里列举的一个个反面例子,似乎都能在里面找到自己父母的影子,但他们,其实就是大部分普通中国60后父母的缩影… 其实全书的概念也很简单,就是同理心,接纳情绪,描述情绪,采用“非暴力沟通”的交流方式,几乎每一章的落脚点都是一样的,扣一星就是觉得内容有点拖沓
评分##希望这是我最后一本育儿书…太困了看得。
评分##我们要培养孩子的四种技能:抗挫折能力;灵活应变的能力;解决问题的能力;从他人的角度看待及感受事物的能力。 每个人都是这样,我们必须先释放暗藏在心底的悲伤,才能够释放内心的爱。
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