具体描述
推荐1：孩子只听得懂故事的语言道理一箩筐，不如故事一小章
推荐2：妈妈不知道怎么办？故事全知道。妈妈给孩子讲故事，追求的是用人去感染人、用事件去引导事件；孩子聆听故事，收获的是于一点一滴中对自我、对社会的反思。妈妈运用这种教育方式，能在轻松愉快的氛围中，达到事半功倍、皆大欢喜的教育效果。
推荐3：本书精选了70个受小朋友喜欢的经典好故事，这些故事贴近孩子的生活、切合孩子的心理。通过妈妈之口娓娓道来，引导孩子去思索、去感悟。本书还有一个特色，就是每一篇文章的后都配有一个“妈妈锦囊”，为每一位妈妈提供切实的解决技巧。
推荐4：很多时候，并非孩子不听妈妈的教导，而是孩子不能理解妈妈所说的道理。让妈妈的教育工作从讲故事入手，过程有趣，结果有效！
推荐5：故事的魔力不可小觑，会讲故事的妈妈**！如果想让教育摆脱枯燥和严肃，如果想让妈妈永远温柔和慈爱，就让家教从讲故事开始吧！
目录
习惯：好习惯成就***的孩子
《挑食的小白兔》——不挑食，长得壮
《没牙齿的大老虎》——爱吃糖，甜掉牙
《大公鸡和“漏嘴巴”》——粒粒米，吃干净
《爱睡懒觉的鸟弟弟》——起的早，有“虫”吃
《不爱睡觉的小猴子》——睡得早，精神好
《小鸡快跑》——勤锻炼，身体棒
《不爱洗澡的小熊》——脏娃娃，没朋友
《小猪的水彩笔》——马大哈，要不得
《说大话的小黄鸡》——吹大牛，酿恶果
《列宁理发》——守规则，要自觉
性格：让良好性格主宰孩子的一生
《悲观和乐观兄弟》——想成功，乐观点
《小袋鼠长大了》——不依赖，靠自己
《任性的小驴子》——好孩子，要听话
《勇敢的小怕怕》——我勇敢，我不怕
《竹子里的秘密》——想快乐，开心门
《机灵的青蛙》——遇事情，要冷静
《小猴子下山》——没长性，没成功
《三条大鱼》——做决定，要果断
《挡不住的诱惑》——对诱惑，不心动
《偷油喝的小老鼠》——自私鬼，没路走
品德：在美德中成长的孩子*幸福
《孝顺的小乌鸦》——对父母，常感恩
《负荆请罪》——能宽容，是美德
《快乐王子与小燕子》——人之初，性本善
《狼来了》——不说谎，赢信赖
《华盛顿砍倒樱桃树》——犯了错，勇承担
《逃难中的哈默》——自尊心，要维护
《小羊过桥》——争不足，让有余
《老锁匠的徒弟》——人处世，要正直
《懂礼貌的小白兔》——好孩子，懂礼貌
《山的回声》——重人者，被尊重
情商：高情商让孩子轻松适应社会
《买橘子》——对自我，常反省
《黄美廉眼中的自己》——做自己，爱自己
《99个钉子孔》——坏脾气，伤害人
《丑小鸭变白天鹅》——坚强点，出困境
《自卑的小骆驼》——有自信，更快乐
《不懂放手的猴子》——该放弃，就放弃
《买报纸》——换位想，多体谅
《小蜗牛送快乐》——多微笑，传快乐
《小白兔和小乌龟》——人与人，要合作
《乌鸦兄弟》——责任感，从小建
财商：不要让你的孩子成为穷人
《勤劳和懒惰》——爱勤劳，不懒惰
《金钱的价值》——懂珍惜，不浪费
《财主的三个儿子》——会花钱，*明智
《一块砖和一座房子》——瞎挥霍，毁一生
《扔掉的麻线》——常储蓄，钱生钱
《虚荣的伯爵夫人》——虚荣心，要不得
《贪便宜的小兔》——爱占小，吃大亏
《贪心的蚊子》——太贪心，反吃亏
《思考的价值》——赚大钱，靠脑子
《要钱不要命》——钱重要？命重要？
学习：帮孩子把他的潜力发挥出来
《鲁迅刻“早”字》——守时间，受尊重
《想出人头地的小老虎》——别空想，踏实干
《小猴子学画画》——不进取，被淘汰
《小兔子比赛》——争，没必要
《猴子等明天》——今日事，今日毕
《小猫钓鱼》——做事情，要专心
《贪玩的小花猫》——不贪玩，不误事
《马虎的来历》——不粗心，不马虎
《爱学习的小牛》——多看书，变聪明
《表扬与批评》——老师严，为成才
交往：从人见人“厌”到人见人爱
《傲慢的孔雀》——太傲慢，没朋友
《白雪公主》——嫉妒心，害自己
《多嘴的八哥鸟》——爱插嘴，讨人嫌
《萝卜回来了》——有困难，互相帮
《渴望友谊的毛毛虫》——真诚心，赢友谊
《爱猜疑的公鸟》——对朋友，要信任
《“大猩猩”曼德拉》——用幽默，化矛盾
《横行霸道的小老虎》——太霸道，没人理
《聪明的小羊》——受气包，学自卫
《爱出风头的鸟》——出风头，遭人厌
相信每一个女人，从做妈妈的那一天起，都希望自己成为一个好妈妈，对孩子的未来负责；而冰心又反复告诉我们：“世上没有一朵鲜花不美丽，也没有一个孩子不可爱。”然而，与如此和谐而美好的理想相对应的现实情况却是——许多妈妈常常痛心疾首地诉苦：“我道理说了一箩筐，可孩子却充耳不闻，还是我行我素……”
那么，问题出在哪里？
不敢说百分之百，但百分之九十九是妈妈的教育方式有问题。因为很多时候，并非孩子不听你的教导，而是孩子不能理解你所说的道理。要知道，孩子的思维是感性而直观的，那些在大人眼里很容易明白的道理，孩子却不一定能听懂，或者说他们压根就对理性的语言不感兴趣。因此，只是单纯地和孩子讲道理，他们又怎么会接受呢？
那么，问题怎么解决？
不敢说是标准答案，但有效的方法是让妈妈的教育工作从讲故事入手。妈妈给孩子讲故事，追求的是用人去感染人、用事件去引导事件；孩子聆听故事，收获的是于一点一滴中对自我、对社会的反思。妈妈运用这种教育方式，能在轻松愉快的氛围中，达到事半功倍、皆大欢喜的教育效果。有时候，教育就是可以如此简单！
每一个故事都是一本社会之书，每一个孩子也都是一本生命之书。本书精选了许多通俗易懂、发人深省的故事，这些故事贴近孩子的生活、切合孩子的心理。而故事以外的悟语，更像是一盏盏智慧的明灯，把一个个做人的道理、处世的技巧、人生的建议通过妈妈之口娓娓道来，引导孩子去思索、去感悟。而且，本书还有一个特色，就是每一篇文章的后都配有一个“妈妈锦囊”，为每一位妈妈提供切实的解决技巧。
愿在那些绘声绘色的故事中，妈妈种下的是正直善良的品格种子，结出的是令人欣喜的美德之果，这对于孩子的一生来说，都是一笔无比珍贵的精神财富。
教育从来都不是一蹴而就的，既然想做一个好妈妈，就让我们从讲故事开始吧！
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