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An intimate and poignant graphic novel portraying one family’s journey from war-torn Vietnam from debut author Thi Bui.
This beautifully illustrated and emotional story is an evocative memoir about the search for a better future and a longing for the past. Exploring the anguish of immigration and the lasting effects that displacement has on a child and her family, Bui documents the story of her family’s daring escape after the fall of South Vietnam in the 1970s, and the difficulties they faced building new lives for themselves.
At the heart of Bui’s story is a universal struggle: While adjusting to life as a first-time mother, she ultimately discovers what it means to be a parent—the endless sacrifices, the unnoticed gestures, and the depths of unspoken love. Despite how impossible it seems to take on the simultaneous roles of both parent and child, Bui pushes through. With haunting, poetic writing and breathtaking art, she examines the strength of family, the importance of identity, and the meaning of home.
In what Pulitzer Prize–winning novelist Viet Thanh Nguyen calls “a book to break your heart and heal it,” The Best We Could Do brings to life Thi Bui’s journey of understanding, and provides inspiration to all of those who search for a better future while longing for a simpler past.
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##去越南前要做点功课，我读了这本图文回忆录《尽力而为》（The Best We Could Do），作者是越南裔美国人Thi Bui，写自己和家人在越战结束后，颠沛流离逃到马来西亚难民营，然后辗转移民美国投靠亲戚，审视自己的身份认同问题以外，还反思战争对父母执拗性格的影响。 我读完想起上个月和父母一起采访他们的朋友，一群参加1979年中越战争的老兵。有位老兵说：“永远不要轻易说打仗，战争能让一个国家倒退十年，还应该为受害的人负责余生。” 受害的人何止活在战火中的人呢，即便他们飘洋过海过上新生活，心理阴影也还是会笼罩下一代——《尽力而为》作者的父母就好像是第一次世界大战中的迷惘一代（Lost Generation），这种迷惘感在家庭中不断延伸，作者刻画得很入骨。
评分##補評，越南移民實錄，一部記述大時代下小人物的移民變遷史。與一般作品所展現的二代移民經歷culture shock以及自我身份認同的掙扎不同，Thi Bui更多側重於描繪父輩移民前在國內的故事以及社會變革。在經歷與親人的離別，革命與戰爭帶來的痛苦，以及後來到了馬來西亞的refugee camp再到後來的美國，用生動鮮活方式再現了當代移民的歷史碎片，不少場景令人印象深刻。
评分##目前读过最好的graphic novel，从成为母亲重走自己母亲的道路并切身地理解家庭的含义开始，回溯自己作为refugee的过往并试图恢复重构父母的经历，多视角叙事好评，作为图像的首尾衔接、结构、漫画与插画的混合运用也经得起推敲，言辞精妙。母亲曾经优越而极为不易的为一家人营生，父亲看起来确实废柴，年轻的时候倒也是一番智勇。更多是在说我们这群boat people的过往如何塑造了现在，关注在一个家庭的变迁史之内，对于越南美国人的集体记忆刻画不多。最后说回越南语的时刻印象最深。
评分##当时因为是比尔盖茨推荐书单，就去图书馆借来看了。漫画，读的很快。我没有那么特别喜欢，更喜欢同体裁的柬埔寨裔美籍的那个女作家的回忆录和华裔的那本the joy luck club
评分##“afraid of my father,craving safety and comfort.i had no idea that the terror i felt was only the long shadow of his own.” “writing about my mother is harder for me—maybe because my image of her is too tied up with my opinion of myself.” “if i ever have a daughter,i’ll tell her to finish school and get a career before ever thinking about boys!”
评分##不是二代移民典型的身份认同作品。首一整章写新生，messy而艰难。中间大部分是父母在越南的家国历史。在越南蝼蚁求生，至出走美国，隐约并置的是一条“重生”产道。末章落脚于生老病死，点题的“尽力而为”(存活)，是为父母的信条，亦是“幸存者”移民二代真正的文化遗产，刻在血肉里的处世之道
评分##Such a deep, touching cartoon memoir! The author went long history of her family & their survival during WWII and VietNam War; her giving birth to her son that leads her to reflect, understand & empathize with her mother--because of her, her mother had the responsibility to fulfill hence never had the chance to become the person she dreamed to be.
评分##一开始因为时间线乱跳觉得有点乱，之后重大历史事件作用于个人及家庭命运时就有沉重的感受了：二战、土地改革、越南战争、北越政权建立等等，其实事件都是熟悉的，苦难也是早有预料的，只是位置不同感受更加复杂。另外越南与朝鲜半岛有某种类似的轨迹，更加觉得人的相同而非不同。
评分##2021.11.20 读的时候好几次都眼眶湿润。本质上探讨的是如何做孩子、做父母、如何面对自己的生命和与他人的联结这样的问题。而越南历史的部分让人心碎，然而我们的历史中又有那么多相似的地方。
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